Anxiety Symptoms: Those Tricky Tingles

tinglesArm tingles. Do you get arm tingles? What about face tingles? Do you know what I’m talking about? I don’t remember exactly when I first experienced this common symptom of anxiety, but I do know that it has been a part of my life for a very, very long time. It’s a strange sensation—almost an itchy burning, or tickly feeling that makes it’s way up through my left arm and into the left half of my face.

I remember one night, back when I was in university, when the tingles got really bad. My chest hurt and half my body felt like it had gone numb. I was convinced that I was having either a heart attack or a stroke. I called my mom (in the middle of the night), and she persuaded me that I needed to find a friend to take me to the hospital.

The problem was that I didn’t really have any friends. I was a hermit. A total recluse. I didn’t let people into my life because that was just too complicated. Then there would have to be lies, and cover-ups… or worse… explanations. And who has time for that, right? The only people in my life were co-workers and classmates, and I hadn’t really broken past that friendship barrier with any of them yet.

Except there was this one girl. We worked together at Micheals, and we had been starting to talk a bit more and get to know each other. So maybe we were friends… or at least, almost friends. It seemed crazy, but naturally mom wouldn’t take no for an answer. So I got on the phone, in the middle of the night, and asked Michelle to come with me to the hospital. (She said yes, and we have been besties ever since!)

After checking my vital signs and doing an ECG, the medical staff in the emergency room explained that I was having a panic attack. It was the first time I had ever really put a name to my anxiety. It wasn’t the first time I’d felt symptoms of anxiety, but it was the first time I realized how deeply anxiety was affecting my body.

To this day I still experience arm and face tingles. Sometimes they are very subtle—just a gentle warning sign that something isn’t quite right. Other times, it feels almost as though half my body is completely asleep. But at least I know what it is. And I am learning to listen to my body and respond with a calm and steady approach, rather than allowing myself to freak out and think that I am dying

I am also learning that my body has been conditioned to default to this symptom over time. One of my classic compulsions in life is feeling guilty. If I do one thing for too long, and therefore start to think that I may be neglecting something more important, I will start to feel guilty. If I am spending my time in a way that I perceive as unproductive, I will start to feel guilty. If I do pretty much anything in a way that is somehow less than what I consider perfect, I will start to feel guilty! I could go on and on with a list of triggers that might make me experience guilt. Sometimes the guilt is subtle, and buried deep within my subconscious. Other times it comes right up to the surface. But either way, as soon as I start to feel any guilt at all, I start to feel anxious… and I start to get the tingles!

Last night I started to feel a bit tingly, and the feeling carried through to this morning. I was confused about it, at first, because I really didn’t seem to have anything going on that should have made me anxious. So I got to thinking… am I really anxious right now? Or is this just an automatic response? Am I feeling guilty for something? And if so, is it one of those things that I really don’t need to feel guilty about? What is my body telling me?

It’s a really wonderful thing to be in a state of mind where I can ask myself that question. What is my body telling me? I have been through absolute torment with my body, and I am so grateful that it hung on long enough to give life a second chance… and not only that, but to become healthy again! To be at a place where I actually can listen to it, and learn from it.

And I think what I am learning from it today is that the tingles are actually tiny little tricksters, trying to mess with my head. When I feel them, my reflex is to assume that I’m anxious, and therefore it is only natural to go to that anxious place in my mind. It’s a self-perpetuating cycle. Something happens, subconsciously I start to process guilt or angst, and my body responds with tingles. Once my brain registers the tingles as a physical sensation, I start to think, “Oh no, I’m anxious, I better start freaking out!”

But what if that wasn’t how I responded to these symptoms? What if, when I felt them, I refused to play their little game? Instead, what if took a quick inventory of my day and asked myself, “is there anything that happened today that might be making me anxious? Is there anything that happened today that might be making me feel guilty?”

If the answer is yes, then I can use some of the strategies I listed in Dark Island Moments to help me work through the anxiety, so that I can address the problem logically and calmly. But if the answer is no, then I can tell those tingles to go back where they came from, because I don’t need them to tell me whether or not I’m okay.

Sometimes this might mean walking through the moments with some physical discomfort on my hands. And that will be mentally challenging for me. But I remember going through that exact same thing before, 10 years ago when I started eating properly and gave up the methods of purging that I had previously employed to bring me comfort. The physical sensation of food in my stomach was extremely uncomfortable—sometimes almost too uncomfortable to bear. But I had to walk through the moments in discomfort to get to the other side, where I realized that the feeling would always eventually pass.

I can know that now too. The feeling will always eventually pass, as long as I cling to what I know: I am okay. I have done this before. I have survived this feeling. I am brave. I am strong. I am alive. I am going to beat this!

What are your main anxiety symptoms? Have you found any positive, healthy coping strategies to manage them?

9 thoughts on “Anxiety Symptoms: Those Tricky Tingles

  1. Alicia French says:

    Oh this so reminded me of me!! My initial anxiety symptoms were a leg cramp/pain in my calf and chest pain( my post partum anxiety seemed to stem from a fear of dying from a blood clot….). Then it became constant Chest pain/heaviness. During a panic attack it felt like I just succumbed to that feeling and was convinced I was having a heart attack or something. I went to the hospital 3 different times for panic attacks, not knowing what they were until the last time I went. I was given emergency medication when it was really bad and was taking one lorazepam a day to cope. I hated the way it made me feel-I’d wake up super woozy, almost feeling high and still having panic feelings through that! So we switched emergency meds and as I started coming to terms with the anxiety i didn’t need it as much. But I still had almost constant chest pain and leg pain. I wore a compression stocking which seemed to help ground me a bit. But the final straw was when I got the tingles. My face started burning/feeling numb. The crazy physical symptoms made my anxiety worse -the tingles was when I finally decided I needed a bit more help to cope since I had thought I was doing better. So I started a low dose of Zoloft. It was so amazing-didn’t take long to feel like myself again. I went off the meds in December 2015. Haven’t had a panic attack since December 2014. I’ve come close but I can really recognize when I’m heading that way now and can work myself through it, very similar to how you described. Only 4 months post partum now and I’m doing great but my anxiety is still there and there is lots of stress looming in my life now and in the coming months. So I’m trying to be hyper vigilant about taking care of myself and recognizing those symptoms. I get twinges of chest pain and the occasional leg pain when there is stress or I’m going through some intense emotions. it really blows my mind the way anxiety can physically affect a person. It is crazy.

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    • Talasi Guerra says:

      Thank you so much for sharing. It is a long journey, that’s for sure. It sounds like you are taking some good steps as far as being very careful to look after yourself and catch the symptoms when they come to the surface. It is important that we don’t “let our guard down”, so to speak. I find whenever I do that, if I get lazy when it comes to addressing my anxiety or fears, then they sneak back into the driver’s seat of my life and regain control. Keep on fighting, Alicia! You are not alone!

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  2. Marie Abanga says:

    Talk about this, last night I told Talasi in an email I was feeling overwhelmingly tired. I also told a few other e-family members. Gosh I couldn’t even eat not attend to my sons. My body was near numb. How did it all start since I think I can now figure out some of my shaggy stuffs. I over did sports which for 2 days in a row can hint some hypo m coming, then since Monday I have been working like crazy both at the office and at home. My hands were almost trembling like I needed to do more with them, and my chest was almost breathing it’s own special breathe just by me thinking of my to do list which curiously seemed longer the more tasks I finished. My body told me last night to slow down… I am doing that today. Not even went into town… just had a good and healthy breakfast, and yes did some sports but reduce both time and work out – will enjoy the sun and go to the river in my neighbourhood this afternoon. I think it is important to know yourself and nurture yourself and yes look out for yourself. The online community which I call my e family is an awesome place for information and support. Thanks Talasi for this post

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    • Talasi Guerra says:

      Yes Marie! So important to listen to your body when it tells you to slow down, and to nurture and look after yourself, especially when you are feeling so depleted. Good for you for taking the time today to do that! So thankful to have “met” you here and to have become a part of your extended e-family ❤

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  3. Maudie says:

    Omg!! I need reassurance! I had a blood draw about 5 weeks ago and somehow this doom of fear fell upon me like maybe the lab tech infected me with a blood borne virus so within 24 hours I began feeling these wierd chills across my back and then it turned to tingles in hands and feet! I can’t get rid of these tingles and it has been through every part of my body! I’ve felt them every where even my lips! It causes me so much anxiety every time I feel a tingle or a sensation! Can it really be anxiety?

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    • Talasi Guerra says:

      Hi Maudie. I am not a doctor, so I most certainly cannot diagnose what is going on with you, but I do know that anxiety can cause severe “tingling” and numbing sensations throughout the body, and have experienced this many times. Either way, I would definitely encourage you to talk to your doctor about this, if for no other reason than to alleviate your fears!! I totally understand, and have feared the same. Good luck with this!!

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